Custom Bespoke Cake in Singapore for My Wife by sugarwhim

My wife is a great cook and for her special day this year, I decided that I needed to make it real special. She always cook for the family and also for lots of our friends as we love to host so I engaged Elizaa from sugarwhim and shared with her my desire to have a really special cake that really represents my wife Pearl.

She shared some ideas with me and one of them was the shape of a pot, then it struck me that my wife simply loves Le Creuset and that we have almost every single pot they have from large pots for Hokkien noodles and stew, wide shallow pans for pasta and paella even down to the small soup bowls so everyone can have their own beautiful tasty french onion soups.

After sharing with Eliza from sugarwhim about the favourite brand my wife loves in the kitchen, she got to work.

The outcome was SPECTACULAR! The attention to detail, the gradients, the rustic-ness really made it look like a real cast iron pot and the decorations around it was made of white chocolate and fondant.

That night I also surprised my wife as I secretly invited our close neighbours to come and celebrate this special day and mini party with her. But because of the government regulations of only being able to have 5 guests, I could not get a few more of our close friends to join us that night to share in the fun and celebration. Everyone loved the cake. It was Earl Grey and Honey, not too sweet and have a good texture when you eat it.

My wife’s birthday is a month long and she have received MANY cakes over the past week, I’m just glad the cake I got for her really stood out amongst the other cakes. lol…

Check our sugarwhim on their Instagram account @sugarwhim and website at if you want to see other designs they have made.

The Road Ahead – NDP Theme Song

Such beautiful lyrics…

One man on an island
One drop in the sea
All it takes to set a wave in motion

Is a single word, an action
A hope that we can be
The change that we’ve been longing to see

For our home, our land, our family
It’s all within our reach

See this island, every grain of sand
Hear this anthem, it’s the voices of our friends
Come whatever on the road ahead
We did it before, and we’ll do it again

When the moments turn to hours
And the day’s last light is gone
Look around us always and remember

There were times we were uncertain
But we just kept walking on
It’s always darkest just before the dawn

See this island, every grain of sand
Hear this anthem, it’s the voices of our friends
Come whatever on the road ahead
We did it before, and we’ll do it again

Our home, the home we share
Where the garden always grows toward the light
Though the road ahead is daunting,
I know we’re gonna be alright

See this island, every grain of sand
Hear this anthem, it’s the voices of our friends
Come whatever on the road ahead
We did it before, and we’ll do it again

Little Red Drop almost one year on

The pandemic came fast and furious. Next thing we knew, all of us were on lock down and had nowhere to go. Then came the Zoom wine sessions. My close friends who got me into wine drinking became my social group after we knocked off from our work from home arrangements. From weekends it became close to something like four times a week.

We talked ALOT about wine and when we ran out of topics, we started looking at wine price lists and then came the group bulk order of wine and it was at the time when the currencies were in our favour. What did you expect us to do. Lol.

It occurred to me that we had a beautiful thing going on. No pretense, no ego, no facade, everyone was comfortable with who they are and what they liked. Everyone exchanged knowledge about wine and was all eager to learn. I thought to myself, there must be public groups out there that allow people in Singapore who love wine to connect and I started my search.

Wine Groups in Singapore on Facebook

There were a few Facebook groups about wine in Singapore, some a few thousand members strong, but when I looked at their content, it was all either filled with promos and deals or it was just one person posting in a broadcast way. There must be a group where people come together just to get to know one another properly without the constant bombardment of posts by wine merchants. Alas, there was no such group. I think there is a need for one, so I discussed with my wine friends and I decided to create a group on Facebook, a non-commercial Facebook group where people shared their wine adventures and also got to know one another not just virtually, but in real life, sharing good bottles of wine over good conversation and friendship.

We needed a name and after quite a few ideas, Desmond who got me into wine back in 2015 suggested a great name and Little Red Drop was born on 28th April 2020.

The current LRD logo is just a simple modern “lrd” type. Did away with the original cursive French Château looking fonts.

It started slow as we had only a small handful of members, then I shared content from LRD to other wine Facebook groups and slowly other wine lovers in Singapore started taking notice and started joining our group.

I welcomed new members almost weekly and encouraged them to introduce themselves as this was the main purpose of the group, for people to get to know one another. From bankers to doctors, from divers to cabin crew, from people in the trade to your everyday working class and even a guy who is still in the Army as a NSF. I seriously got to know alot of new people because of LRD.

The first Intro post
As of April 2021, we welcomed our 270th member

Desmond also made a good point that no one will join if there is no content, so I started making content series and scheduling them. I curated content about Italian wines, notable wine people and even asked people about their favourite wines. Here are some thumbnails of the published Facebook posts. Each series I did a roundup, then shared it on the larger Facebook groups.

Wine Websites
Types of Italian Wines
Notable Wine People
Fave Wine?

But what was fun was not just content about wine, but content about the people in the group and I started to try and do some interviews with some of the members that joined very early on. There was Liko Kheh who was a student then Micheal Juya who is in banking. Fun conversation over chats, then crafted the posts accordingly. I should do more.

Interview with Liko Kheh
Interview with Michael Juya

Then I became adventurous and thought, hey, why not a video interview. And then I got to know Charine Tan who happen to be a Singaporean working in Croatia and in the wine business too interesting. Some hiccups on the FB Live stream at the start, so had to re upload the video and lost the comments on the live stream.

Interview with Charine Tan

Slowly but surely, we welcomed our 100th member Christine Sou and then 200th member Shermaine Ang just before the end of 2020. Today as of April 2021, we have crossed 270 members.

Then came the main event. Without any prompting or nudging, the very first in real life meetup which I would like to call LRD#0 happened organically. Dibbs and Felix meetup and that made history.

Dibbs and Felix did the first LRD meetup. I’m calling it LRD#0.

Then we organised in small groups allowed by the law (due to covid restrictions) to meet up at BYOB Restaurants to share wine.

  • LRD#1: 22 Aug 2020 @ New Ubin Seafood Zhong Shan Park (What you are into now)
  • LRD#2: 26 Sep 2020 @ Pizzeria L’operetta Icon Village (Italian Night)
  • LRD#3: 30 Oct 2020 @ Communal Bistro Delicacy (Bordeaux vs Bordeaux Inspired)
  • LRD#4: 28 Nov 2020 @ Kam’s Roast Pacific Plaza (Pinot Noir Evening)
  • LRD#5: 17 Dec 2020 @ Empire Nee Ann City (Xmas Blend 3 grapes or more)
  • LRD#6: 29 Jan 2021 @ Wah Lok (Rhone Night)
  • LRD#7: 19 Feb 2021 @ Wee’s Family Coffeeshop (No IAFU Italian, Australian, French, USA)
  • LRD#8: 18 Mar 2021 @ Po Restaurant (OldisGoldOldWorld > 10 years)
  • LRD#9: Whole of April 2021 @ Anywhere (Horizontal or Vertical)
    • 1 Apr 2021 @ Homeground Grill & Bar (09 Horizontal, Bordeaux vs Tuscany vs Burgundy)
    • 2 Apr 2021 @ David’s place (Bordeaux 2nd Growth not really Horizontal but still fierce)
    • more to come…

The amazing thing is I did not arrange all of them. Instead it was the community that arranged most of it. I thank Shirley, Darric, Angela and Sylvia for helping to organise all the events and coordinating with their own small groups. And the best part is there are alot more unofficial LRD meetups as members started making friends and started hanging out separately! This is EXACTLY the purpose of this group and I’m so so so glad it took just about 1 year for this to happen.

Initially my wife did not join me in the events as she is quite an introvert, but she did join me at LRD#5 and that changed everything for her. She found the people really nice and easy to get along and is super supportive of my doing this LRD thing.

I personally got to know alot of new friends. People from all walks of life and I’m so happy to have setup this group. Even if I quit and stop LRD today, some of these new friends will be for the long haul.

So we started to host at our place for some of the friends we knew from LRD. First session was in honour of Charine Tan as she came back from Croatia for a bit during CNY period so we had to share a few bottles. :)

Then we organised a 90s themed night where we all brought bottles from the 90s, dressed up in 90s fashion and also listened to 90s pop all night. Super fun night. My bottle was the year my wife and I started dating and my wife’s bottle was the year we got married, I’ll let you guess which is which.

To more good friends, good wine and good times. If you wanna join us, join Little Red Drop on Facebook an I hope to share a bottle or more with you. If you have been in this group for a while, I would love to get any feedback so that we can make this group even more awesome.