Category: Life

Recently I attended a lecture in Singapore by Professor Brian Cox: Emergence, his brand new world tour for 2026. Lots of really nice scientific theories explained in visually arresting ways and in such simple terms. It then inspired me to put down some of my own thoughts in this area. So here goes…

We usually think of time as a universal clock ticking away at the exact same speed for everyone. In reality, time is personal and elastic. It is a dimension just like up/down, left/right, and forward/backward that allows events to happen in a sequence. The mind-bending thing is that it passes at different rates depending on how fast you are moving and how much gravity is pulling on you.

Remenber that Miller’s Planet scene in Interstellar? A few hours passed on the planet for the team that went down to the planet, but years for the space craft orbiting it. Then I though to myself is there a way to visualise how speed and gravity affects time in one chart. Of course with the help of AI, this chart is easily generated and thats what I did this weekend and its beautiful.

Two concepts we first need to understand.

• Special Relativity – Einstein’s first big breakthrough was realizing that the speed of light is the absolute speed limit of the universe, and it never changes. Because the speed of light is constant, space and time have to bend to accommodate it. So if you travel on a spaceship near the speed of light, time actually slows down for you compared to someone standing still on Earth. This is time dilation.
• General Relativity – A few years later, Einstein realized that space and time are stitched together into a single fabric called spacetime. Gravity isn’t a mysterious invisible pulling force; it’s the result of heavy objects bending that fabric. Imagine putting a heavy bowling ball on a trampoline. It creates a dip. If you roll a marble nearby, it spirals toward the bowling ball. That “dip” is gravity. Earth’s gravity curves the spacetime around it, which is what keeps our feet on the ground.

So putting these 2 concepts together, I generated this Time Dilation Map which shows how Speed and Gravity together affects time.

How to Read This Map:

• The Color Scale (Z-Axis): The colors indicate the Rate of Time Passage.
  • Bright yellow areas “1” mean time is ticking at its normal, maximum speed.
  • Deep purple/blue areas “0” mean time has completely stopped relative to the rest of the universe.
• The White Dashed Contour Lines: These act like elevation lines on a map, showing you exactly where time slows down to 90%, 70%, 50%, 30% and 10% of its normal rate.

The 4 Corners of the Universe on this Chart:

1. The Bottom-Left Corner (Earth / Normal Life): This is where humans live. Our speed is practically 0% of the speed of light, and Earth’s gravity is incredibly weak compared to a black hole. Time here passes at a perfect “1” where we experience normal life. (While we know our solar system is zipping through space so we are not totally at no speed, but let’s keep it simple for now.)
2. The Bottom-Right Corner (The Speed Zone): If you travel at 99% the speed of light out in empty space (far away from any stars or gravity), you drag your position horizontally all the way to the right. As you can see, the color plummets into the dark purple zone. Time almost freezes because of your velocity.
3. The Top-Left Corner (The Gravity Zone): If you park your spaceship completely still, but right at the Event Horizon of a black hole “1” on the Y-axis, you move straight up the chart. Time freezes here entirely as well because of the immense gravity warping spacetime.
4. The Top-Right Corner (The Ultimate Extreme): This is the realm where a traveler is both moving near the speed of light and falling into a black hole. Here, both variables compound to crush the passage of time down to absolute zero well before you even hit the maximum edge.

By treating speed and gravity as coordinates, an advanced interstellar traveler could use this exact map to calculate exactly how much they want to step into the future of the universe!

In fact, we have to calculate both of these variables right now for our GPS satellites! Because they are moving fast around the Earth, their clocks slow down. But because they are further away from Earth’s gravity, their clocks speed up. Scientists have to constantly correct for both variables, or your phone’s GPS would drift by miles every single day.

Very interesting things to think about.

End of last year, as a family we did a year end review and also talked about what we individually want to do more in 2026. The thing I mentioned is I would like to create more and consume less and my dear Cleo have been keeping me in check. But it’s not easy and I ask myself why. I think how our lives happen at home is really due to the kind of rooms we have.

If you look at a typical home today especially in Singapore, it’s almost entirely built for consumption and recovery. We have the bedroom to recharge, the kitchen and dining room to fuel up, and the living room to consume content and host friends (which is my favourite part). We’ve become experts at  consumption and couch potato-ing honestly.

But there’s a missing piece in our daily rhythm: Creation.

We’ve treated our hobbies like extra things, clutter that needs to be tucked away in a cupboard. By not giving making a permanent space at home, we’re essentially telling our brains that creating is a secondary activity and not prioritized value.

I believe every home needs a Studio and here’s why:

The Problem with “The Dining Table”

Most of us have a hobby we love. Maybe you like sewing, painting, fixing electronics, pottery or something simpler like fixing a large jigsaw puzzle or Lego set. But because we don’t have a specific room for these things, we usually end up working on the dining room table.

This creates a “setup struggle.” You spend 15 minutes getting your stuff out, work for a little bit, and then have to pack everything away because it’s time for dinner. Eventually, you just stop making things because the effort of cleaning up isn’t worth it.

A studio changes this. It offers “permanent projects.” You can leave a half-finished painting on the easel or a sewing project on the desk, walk away, and come back to it whenever you have five minutes of free time.

From “Buying” to “Building” and from “Consuming” to “Creating”.

When a home has a studio, the family mindset shifts. Instead of thinking, “Where can I buy [whatever you need]?” or “Who can I hire to fix this?” you start thinking, “Can we make or fix that?”

• Kids learn by watching: They see you solving problems with your hands and they learn that they too should try when faced with a challenge.
• Skills become hobbies: You move from being a “customer” to being a “creator.”
• Value is created: You aren’t just spending money on entertainment; you are creating something, a bowl, a dress, or a piece of art that didn’t exist before and something that expresses who you are.

A New Kind of Family Time

In the living room, everyone usually stares at the same screen in silence. In a studio, something different happens.

One person might be sketching at a desk while another is 3D-printing a part, knitting a scarf or a shared project whatever it might be. You are together, but you are all focused on your own “flow.” This is a deeper, more satisfying way to spend time as a family than just sitting on the couch and watching TV on the many streaming services which have been made so effortlessly accessible.

Making it Happen

A studio doesn’t have to be a giant, expensive workshop. It can be a converted spare bedroom, a corner of your house, or even a very organized walk-in closet. The only requirement is that it is a place dedicated to making things.

If we have a room for everything else we do in life, we should definitely have a room for the things we create.

So what is your next project if you have the space at home?

I need to get this out of my system… so bear with me…

“Customer Centricity”. I’m honestly quite tired of hearing this. Maybe because I believe humans are irrational. Maybe because I think we as consumers don’t know what’s best for ourselves.

The consumer landscape is a dynamic, ever-shifting mosaic of desires, ethical demands, and technological expectations. Every brand, whether a global titan or an agile startup, stands at a critical strategic crossroads: should brands constantly respond to what consumers currently want, or should brands boldly endeavour to shape the future they believe in, leading consumers towards it?

This isn’t merely a business strategy question; it’s a fundamental choice that will determine not just market share, but potentially, the very trajectory of our collective “better future” as a human race.

Let’s explore this divide as it’s been on my mind a lot of late while responding to proposals or developing strategies to drive growth for brands.

The Responsive Brand: Mastering the Art of the Present

Many brands are experts at navigating the here and now. They are the astute surfers of consumer waves, their well invested R&D and innovation teams have finely tuned sensors, detecting every ripple from the surging demand for sustainable packaging and hyper-personalisation, to the integration of AI into daily life. Their market intelligence is impeccable, their agility unmatched.

Their strength lies in immediate relevance and reduced risk. They deliver what consumers are explicitly asking for, minimising speculation, recommendations backed by empirical data. We see this in the rapid proliferation of plant-based or organic options in every grocery store, the explosion of niche products and services in respond to the niche segment of needs and wants, algorithmic recommendations while you doom-scroll that maximise profit margins, the constant software updates that addresses the latest privacy concerns or introduction of generative AI features in every daily app even needed or not. They optimise existing paradigms, making them smoother, more efficient, and more palatable for the current consumer.

But here’s the critical question: does expertly reacting to current desires truly build a better future, or does it merely perpetuate and refine the existing one? While essential for market health and meeting immediate needs, this approach leads to incremental improvements rather than transformative leaps. It risks being derivative, focused on short-term gains, and potentially missing the deeper, unspoken societal needs that lie beneath the surface of popular culture. Worse, it drives our human race into ground, unhealthy, unmotivated, easily manipulated like sheep being lead to the slaughter.

The Visionary Brand: Building Tomorrow, Today

Then there are brands driven by a deep conviction, an almost prophetic perspective on how the world should be. These organisations aren’t just listening to consumers; they’re trying to educate them, inspire them, and ultimately, change their behaviour to align with a preferred future.

Think of the pioneers of electric vehicles, long before climate change was a mainstream concern for every household. Or companies investing in lab-grown meats or alternative source of proteins when the market was barely a whisper. Consider brands developing immersive virtual and augmented realities, not just as entertainment, but as platforms for entirely new forms of work, education, and social connection. Their products and services are often conceived not from a focus group, but from a profound belief in what’s possible and necessary.

Their strength lies in disruption, innovation, and long-term impact. They are willing to take significant risks, invest heavily in R&D, and embark on extensive educational campaigns to bring consumers along on their journey. They create new markets, establish new norms, and often, their initial offerings are met with skepticism before becoming the gold standard. When successful, these visionary brands don’t just participate in the future; they define it, often leading to profound societal benefits, from environmental sustainability to health advancements.

Think Patagonia (sustainability), think Tesla (energy & transportation), think Impossible Foods (ending the era of animal-based agriculture)…

However, this path is fraught with challenges: immense capital investment, significant consumer inertia, the risk of misjudging the future, and the long, arduous process of shifting ingrained habits.

Towards a Truly Better Tomorrow: A Call to Action

This distinction isn’t about declaring one approach inherently superior. Both play crucial roles. Responsive brands ensure that our journey is comfortable and that visionary breakthroughs are integrated seamlessly. Visionary brands, however, are the cartographers of new territories, daring to imagine and build paths we didn’t even know we needed.

The real challenge for us, as business leaders, innovators, and consumers, is to discern: Which brands are truly advancing the needle towards a better tomorrow?

• Is a “better future” simply one where our current desires are perfectly met and seamlessly optimised? Or is it one where fundamental challenges, climate change, inequality, resource scarcity, digital well-being are confronted head-on by audacious visions?
• Do we, as consumers, inadvertently empower brands that merely give us more of what we already consume, or do we reward those that challenge us to think differently, act differently, and aspire to a more sustainable, equitable, and fulfilling existence?
• How can we, as a business community, foster an environment where bold, future-shaping convictions are not only celebrated but economically viable, even when they push us out of our comfort zones?

Perhaps the most potent combination for a truly better future lies in synergy… visionary brands daring to dream and build, coupled with responsive brands rapidly integrating and democratising those innovations once their path is proven. This interplay creates a dynamic tension that can drive genuine, sustainable progress.

Let’s open the conversation:

What role do you believe brands should play in shaping our future? Are we, as consumers, too focused on immediate gratification to truly support the long-term visionaries? And ultimately, how do we encourage more brands to not just react to the tide, but to help steer our Human race towards a truly better tomorrow?

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Oh man… how I wish I can work on more Visionary Brands.

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As CNY approaches, we stand on the precipice of the Year of the Fire Horse, there is a familiar electricity in the air. 2026 arrives with a reputation for intensity, a blend of the Horse’s restless spirit and the transformative power of Fire. During office lunches and family dinners, the conversation inevitably drifts toward the “forecasts.” We hear whispers of volatility, warnings of economic shifts, and a dizzying array of advice from masters that often contradicts the one we heard just an hour prior.

It is natural to seek a map when the fog of global uncertainty feels thick. We want someone to tell us when to run and where to hide. But perhaps the most profound mystery of the universe isn’t hidden in the stars, it is hidden in our own beliefs.

The Architecture of Our Reality

There is a simple, yet radical truth: Our beliefs are the blueprints for our future. Science and philosophy often agree that our mindset acts as a filter. When we believe the world is a place of scarcity and impending doom, our brains become hyper-attuned to threats, causing us to shrink, hesitate, and miss the very opportunities that could save us. Conversely, when we choose to believe in a positive future, we aren’t just “wishing”, we are recalibrating our internal compass.

“The stars do not change their positions based on our hope, but our hope changes how we navigate by the stars.”

By choosing an optimistic outlook, we:

• Identify hidden paths: A hopeful mind is a creative one, seeing solutions where a fearful mind only sees walls.
• Fuel collective action: Hope is contagious. When we act as if a better world is possible, we inspire those around us to build it with us.
• Maintain internal peace: While we cannot control the “weather” of global geopolitics, we are the absolute masters of our own “climate.”

The Fire Horse: A Symbol of Momentum, Not Fear

In traditional symbolism, the Horse is often associated with “Ma Dao Cheng Gong” (马到成功), success the moment the horse arrives. It represents a year of bold movement and breakthroughs. Instead of viewing this “fire” as something that consumes, let us view it as the spark of innovation and the warmth of human connection.

The conflicting advice of the day serves as a reminder that no one possesses a singular key to your life. You are the only one living it. If the forecasts bring you comfort, take the bits that inspire you and leave the rest behind. Use the energy of the Horse not to gallop away from challenges, but to charge toward the version of the future you want to see.

A Humble Call to Action

We don’t need to know exactly what lies in store to decide how we will show up. Let us walk into 2026 with a humble heart and fierce optimism. Let us decide, right now, that regardless of the economic indices or the headlines, how the cryptos rally or the stocks plunges, we will be the architects of kindness, the drivers of progress, and the keepers of hope.

The future is not a destination we are traveling toward; it is a reality we are creating with every thought we hold and every action we take.

Let’s believe in a beautiful 2026. And then, let’s go out and make it so.

You know… sometimes I find myself observing people, and a thought keeps circling in my mind – a bit like how we all fit somewhere on a “spectrum”. Not just any spectrum, but what I like to call the “Human Bell Curve.” It’s a bit of a weird way to look at things, but thats just how my mind works, so pls bear with me.

On one far end, we have those truly angelic souls, the ones who are so genuinely good, kind, and generous that they almost shimmer. Selfless, always putting others first. The kind of people you just feel better being around. And then, at the other extreme, you find the truly self-centered, mean, and, dare I say, terrible individuals. The ones who drain your energy and make you wonder about humanity. I’m sure you can bucket a few people you know into one of these 2 category.

We often imagine these extremes are rare, just a handful of saints and a few devils. But what if we applied the statistical elegance of a bell curve to human nature? What if we truly understood where most of us land on this curve, and what that implies for our daily interactions? It’s a perspective shift that could genuinely change how we see the faces passing us by.

Let’s be honest, statistically speaking, most of us are probably right smack in the middle. Not Mother Teresa, not a supervillain, just… us. If that’s the case, think about it: there are roughly 50% of people “nicer” than us, and – a slightly more sobering thought – 50% who are “more challenging” or “less nice” than us. It means there’s a significant chunk of folks out there we need to learn to navigate with patience and grace. And for those wonderful souls on the nicer side? We really should be more actively thankful, shouldn’t we? A little appreciation goes a long way.

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Now, imagine you’re one of the truly kind ones, perhaps in the upper echelons of this curve, with 80% of the population being “less nice” than you. That’s a lot of people! But here’s the beautiful paradox: because you possess that inherent kindness and empathy, you’re more likely to understand why people behave the way they do. You might see their struggles, their insecurities, their pain, and find it in your heart to forgive, to extend grace rather than judgment. It’s a silent superpower, that empathy.

And what about those at the other end, perhaps 80% are “nicer” than them? Well, if you’re operating from a place of meanness or selfishness, the concept of a bell curve probably doesn’t even cross your mind. You’re simply doing what you want, when you want, without much thought for the ripple effects. The lack of empathy means a lack of caring about where you stand or how others perceive you.

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This isn’t about making a grand statement or pointing fingers. It’s just an observation, a lens through which to view the beautiful, messy tapestry of human interaction. It’s about cultivating an understanding and an awareness of where we, and others, might sit on this grand curve. And perhaps, just perhaps, this awareness helps us understand ourselves a little better, and gently guides us towards how we might choose to be in the world.

For the empathetic heart, this bell curve isn’t just a statistical model, but a whisper of potential. While the math might tell us where we are, I’m not one to let numbers fully dictate how life will turn out. Maybe, just maybe, if we each lean a little more into kindness, into generosity, we can collectively nudge that curve. We can all be part of a gentle, hopeful shift, moving the whole of humanity just a little bit further towards the good side. What if we all tried…