Family guy with 3 Daughters, Digital Guy, Wine Community Leader, Runner in Singapore.
Have been feeling quite random of late, so here are some random questions:
If you’re Singaporean, you need to sign up for this website. Other then all the fun stuff like making a pledge on the Members Wall, you can do the National Rolling Polls to impact the mood of Singapore. Currently, Singapore is feeling “Ok Lah!” lol…
I’ve added my pledge.
Me, a citizen of Singapore, pledge myself as one reliable worker, regardless of travel, waking up early or at times over the weekends, to build a balanced work life based on moderation and long term planning so as to achieve 2.1 reproduction, happiness, prosperity and progress for my family.
~ nickpan on mySingapore.sg Members Wall
lol…
Ok, on the serious side, the website is really trying to serve as a platform for locals to get together to improve Singapore. Check out Project SG where there is a list of such projects.
Calling all Singaporeans! go support support!!
This is one book I gotta get as its by the folks at Design Melt Down which is a super useful site.
Many might not know, but i’m a big Sandy Lam fan. To me she have the best asian female vocal till date. Just went to her ’08 Concert in Singapore Indoor Stadium and it was a fantastic experience.
Listening to her voice and songs since 1990, now seeing her sing live is really a surreal experience. I basically grew up with her songs and when some of the songs were sung, fond memories of my younger days came back to me.
The following song was THE song i was listening to when i visited Japan for the first time in the early 90s. I remember holding on to my Aiwa Walkman with this song playing while walking down Shinsaibashi in Osaka looking at the girls walk by. For those who can’t read the Chinese title, it means something like “the girl that walks down the street”.
The following song is also very popular.
“Friends” is such a loose term. We all have friends. Some have more then others. Some we classify as people we come across in our different life stages. Some we classify as people in our community. Some we classify as true friends. We are comfortable hanging out more with some. We have more things to talk about with some.
My whole life I thought I’m an introvert, did not like talking to new people, did not like trying to be someone i’m not. Subconsciously, I retreated myself into my comfort zone. No one will judge me there, no one will have undue expectations from me, no one will think badly of me of things that I did or did not do.
This comfort zone grew. Slowly I can see similar people in similar comfort zones. People who are real, people whom i’m comfortable to share my comfort zone with. Slowly I come to realise this is my circle of true friends.
I started noticing that there are people who are outside of this circle.
What should i do with them? How should I change myself? Or should I?